Xiaera: From weary to wonderful pt.1

J: Xiaera, hello.  Would you be willing to provide me with some assistance on a personal level that I think might help others?

X: Greetings dear heart, it is always a pleasure to connect and to offer assistance.  And may we remind those who read these words, that we are here for you too.  You too are invited to connect personally with us, for we truly wish to be of service in the upliftment of humanity on both a global and personal level.

J: That’s a lovely reminder, thank you.  I am sure others will enjoy connecting with you too.

X: Yes!  Now, how can our energies help you?

J: This may be a little long, but bear with me… I am noticing in my own life, splits with family and friends between the 3D narrative and the awakening narrative.  Those I know and love who are asleep and seem utterly unwilling to wake up which can leave me feeling disheartened, dragged down and sluggish, I suppose because that is there energy signature.  

There are many, many like me, who have loved ones in both ‘camps’, and to be honest, I’m not willing to cease interacting with my loved ones just because they don’t see the world the same way as me, but I know it is so draining.

X: Thank you, dear heart, for bringing this to our attention.  Yes, there are many who are feeling ‘torn between worlds’, if you will.  It is like the early explorers who set sail around the world, knowing deep inside they would not fall off the edge, but also there was that tiny worry, those little voices of loved ones who thought it might just happen.

So, to be more practical, how do you sustain yourselves in these times?  And how do you heal the heartbreak of words and actions from cherished loved ones who are shrouded in fear?

J: Yes!

X: I wish I could give you an easy solution.  There is not one at present.  The shake up in society is so deep, drawing all the way back through ancestral lines and millennia of history, that an ‘easy’ reset is not possible.  I understand that it is of limited comfort when we tell you that we are with you, shining light and love towards you all, to make the process as easy as we can.

On a practical level, the focus has to be on diligent self-care.  We are not your saviours; you are your saviours.  You are your Higher Selves, in physical form, at this time, in this exact moment, to complete the transition.  

It is crucial that you develop strong self-care rituals and boundaries.  There are so many energetics flying around that you need to be diligent in spiritual ‘hygiene’, clearing yourselves of energy forms that attach to you and of words said that undermine your sense of personal power and fortitude in the world.

Expect that nothing will be as you imagine it.  Let go of everything.  

Everything.  

Ideas of how people will behave, of where you will live, of your work will be… all institutions and structures are being crumbled from underneath their foundations at present.  It may seem as though they are still standing, but they will crash suddenly and seemingly – to those with 3D glasses on – without warning.  

You, the brave and the wise, are aware that you are balancing differing world views, as if with two feet on two different icebergs.  It is exhausting physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. 

Prioritising self-care is of crucial importance. It is practicing your divine authority.  It is also the practice of alchemy, transforming lower vibrations into higher vibrations that uplift all.

J: Yes, but I’m finding it so hard to almost say nothing that will upset family and friends.

X: Then say nothing.  Sometimes those closest to you will not be ‘switched on’ by you, it will be someone else.  However, that is not to say that you did not lay down the foundation for that ‘aha moment’.  You are looking for change, where it is not yours to seek.  Let go of expectations.  Then you are free to observe what is actually happening around you. Changes that are taking place subtly. 

Waiting for big events will also drag you down.  They will happen, but waiting… that is draining.  

Being - practicing love in the small moments, with no expectation of a return, of gratitude or even of understanding - but simply for its own sake, for how it makes you feel to create beauty and kindness around you… that is the pathway for many light holders at this time.  

Every action, word and thought that springs from love, is tipping the balance closer and closer to the breakthrough events you are waiting for… but don’t wait.  Create love in action: in your actions.